June 4, 2006

the longest weekend

Emily’s SLE flared again. Due to the impending fear of complications, we decided to bring forward the delivery date tentatively to 7th June, which means, only a few days away.

And god knows how that little amendment of date had impacted our lives this weekend. Everything seems to be moving at sloth speed. Anxiety attacked, amalgamated with that anti-gravitational feel - it’s like anticipating a blind date at the following hour. Nothing seems to be right. Tried to read, but can’t register a single word. Tried to watch some TV, but they’re always not interesting enough. Tried to blog, but the mind’s too agitated to write.

No words can describe the current state of mind I’m in now. I had to make this entry to remember this final moment before I ditch my soon-to-be-gone chrysalis of youth… for I, do not know how I’m gonna be like after Regine comes into my life. It’s just 3 days away, and yet, it feels like eternity…

(Probably most of the guys are having the same strange feeling as what I’ve described above, which is likely attributed to the upcoming World Cup tournament. But I assure you, my fellow friends, that my delirium has nothing to do with the World Cup tournament at all…)

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41 comments: “the longest weekend”


  • Nicholas
    June 4th, 2006, 10:28 pm | #

    ahh, the joys of being a father. wishing u all the best in handling a crying baby and stinking pampers.
    but on the bright side, at least u can watch matches while feeding her at 3am.


  • June 4th, 2006, 11:20 pm | #

    Whoa, if only it were on Tuesday…06.06.06 =D


  • doc
    June 4th, 2006, 11:53 pm | #

    Dude, you know my number.

    All the best to Emily.


  • June 5th, 2006, 12:01 am | #

    Take care dude…


  • malcolmchoy
    June 5th, 2006, 12:13 am | #

    ALL THE BESSTTTTTTTT!!!!!!


  • June 5th, 2006, 12:18 am | #

    7th June. A few days away. Ceasarian? Both Adam and T’ra came out that way. The waiting’s not fun dude. Bring a book. Make it a real page-turner. One that’ll totally tune you out from the real world.

    Or you could just ask the anesthetist to use the leftover anesthesia on you to knock you out and wake up when everything’s over.


  • Shar
    June 5th, 2006, 1:32 am | #

    Michael!! I offer myself as your kid’s fairy godmother!
    :P


  • June 5th, 2006, 2:28 am | #

    If it falls on the 6th it would be interesting. Triple 6, the number of the devil. hehe.


  • June 5th, 2006, 2:32 am | #

    Everything will fall into its place.. after baby comes.. :)
    Good luck.. and safe delivery to Emily… and a healthy baby to both of you .. :)


  • Rin
    June 5th, 2006, 7:04 am | #

    Oh I see. Shit, two entries ago I thought your baby girl was actually born. Ahhh, I don’t skim and scan very well. *pai seh*

    Yeah I get what you mean. Having a baby apparently takes a couple’s relationship to a whole new level. When the baby’s born, the two-person relationship becomes a whole new unit: a family. I have cousins who got married and had kids of their own, and it’s really amazing, although sometimes I think they pamper their kids too much. But yeah, it’s normal to feel the anticipation of actually becoming a father.


  • 100
    June 5th, 2006, 7:14 am | #

    I totally understand how you feel. I had my finals about a month ago, and I was worried, failing that class means I wont be able to graduate. Call me a CC but I called my friend at 300AM and told him how worried I was. After my exam, I was even more afraid as out of 4 questions, I have to rely on partial credits for all 4 questions. But 2 weeks ago, I graduated.

    I hope you too can smile after a few days as you read this entry again. Patient and Good Luck~!


  • June 5th, 2006, 7:34 am | #

    Good luck man. Tell Emily everybody’s wishing her and your little girl all the best.


  • June 5th, 2006, 8:07 am | #

    dun worry so much because when Regine arrives, you’ll carve the sweetest smile on your face that all that you’re worrying will be gone. take one step at a time :)


  • June 5th, 2006, 11:45 am | #

    All the best to both of you. Hope all goes well..


  • Celestina
    June 5th, 2006, 1:13 pm | #

    All the best! I hope everything goes well and falls into place.. =)


  • June 5th, 2006, 2:00 pm | #

    Take care of Emily. She’ll need your moral suppport. All the best.


  • June 5th, 2006, 2:04 pm | #

    I wish all of u well.


  • Eve
    June 5th, 2006, 4:48 pm | #

    All the best!


  • June 5th, 2006, 5:31 pm | #

    A few days ago, we went to monitor the baby’s health to make sure everything’s good for the delivery.

    Emily was made to go through a test called CTG (Cardio something something) - where we get to do nothing but listen to the baby’s amplified heartbeat for the whole 30 minutes.

    The experience? It was ecstatic. XD

    Thanks for the wishes, people. Appreciate it.


  • KK
    June 5th, 2006, 7:47 pm | #

    Congratulations on the coming of your precious new arrival. Now you begin a new adventure in learning that true happiness really does come from selfless service. My best wishes to you.


  • Xiao_zhai
    June 5th, 2006, 8:31 pm | #

    Hope I am not too late here.Good luck,Mike


  • tEo
    June 5th, 2006, 9:00 pm | #

    All the best. ;)


  • June 5th, 2006, 10:02 pm | #

    All the best, Michael! :)


  • June 5th, 2006, 11:39 pm | #

    Always not too late to wish all the best and blessings on both Emily and Regine, also to Michael [especially Michael... tee hee], dun forget to have fun… itzza whole nu adventure, :-)!


  • June 6th, 2006, 12:27 am | #

    *TITOKI is busy preparing confetti to welcome little Ms Ooi into this world!!!*

    Congrats Mike!!! You are going to be a father SOON!!! :)


  • sarah
    June 6th, 2006, 7:30 am | #

    hey michael,

    don’t worry, both emily and regine will be fine. i bet regine will be a beautiful baby..take care


  • tyra
    June 6th, 2006, 8:34 am | #

    breath :)


  • Din
    June 6th, 2006, 12:33 pm | #

    Dude, all the best in your kid’s birth.

    p.s. u gonna be in that room?


  • pang sai
    June 6th, 2006, 12:48 pm | #

    All the best.


  • Random Passerby
    June 6th, 2006, 1:53 pm | #

    Best wishes Mike! Hang in there! You’re gonna be a dad real soon!


  • gorgeous
    June 6th, 2006, 2:06 pm | #

    best wishes. you’re gonna have a bundle of joy as well as a new alarm clock. [grin]. you won’t be ditching your chrysalis of youth, you can always bring her along.can’t wait to read your entries on fatherhood.just being curious, what’s SLE?


  • yk
    June 6th, 2006, 2:24 pm | #

    Ah, you should have induced her birth to today! I think its apt. Spawn of evil and all that.

    good luck!


  • June 6th, 2006, 2:34 pm | #

    Thanks people.

    Din - No I’m not going in.

    gorgeous - SLE is an incurable chronic disease that affects the immune system. Affects mostly on females. You can read more about SLE here.


  • June 6th, 2006, 3:11 pm | #

    happy fatherhood to you…

    so will we hav a chance to see regine’s picture gracing michaelooi.net??

    hehehe


  • sans_r
    June 6th, 2006, 5:17 pm | #

    good luck… all’s well, ends well.


  • bongkersz
    June 6th, 2006, 7:03 pm | #

    All the best wishest michael :) you will make a cool dad! :D


  • nyonyapenang
    June 6th, 2006, 9:52 pm | #

    Hi, just drop by to extend best wishes to your whole family.


  • June 6th, 2006, 11:32 pm | #

    It’s THE day. Hope things are well for Emily and Regine. All the best : )


  • June 7th, 2006, 2:40 am | #

    i read but rarely comments… however, all the best to uncle mike and emily… hopes regine will be kickin and spankin when she arrives!


  • VC
    June 7th, 2006, 11:54 am | #

    Best wishes to you and Emily, dude. I’ll keep both of you in my prayers.


  • Chloe
    June 7th, 2006, 3:39 pm | #

    All the best!! May u be blessed with a healthy baby!! I will giv u my 101% of emotional, mental, and spiritual support.. ehehe..

    Congrats ya!!